Discover the foundational principles that will empower you to manage emotions, enhance relationships, and live a values-driven life.
Build a Life Worth Sharing
In RO-DBT, “edges” refer to the areas where a person encounters discomfort, resistance, or avoidance in their thoughts, feelings, or behaviors.
Edges often represent moments of emotional or cognitive struggle and are opportunities for growth and self-discovery.
Living a life worth sharing
Humans are inherently tribal, relying on social bonds for survival.
Social cooperation is essential for sharing resources and working together.
Well-being involves openness, flexibility, and social connectedness.
Radical openness embodies these factors, forming the core principle of RO-DBT.
Social signaling is central to treatment because it addresses how people with overcontrolled tendencies communicate their emotions to others.
Social signaling affects loneliness in individuals with over-control disorders.
Over-control involves complex interactions among biology, environment, and coping styles.
Bio-temperamental deficits contribute to rigid behavioral responses.
Cultivating radical openness and self-enquiry involves experiential learning.
Individuals engage in practical experiences to develop these skills.
Get Out of Your Head and Into Your Life
Ground yourself by anchoring your focus, expanding your awareness, and engaging in mindful movements like stretching and breathing. Rate your present level of presence on a scale of 0 to 10.
Reflect on the purpose behind your actions and identify the values that drive you forward. How aligned are you with these values right now? Rate your connection to your values on a scale of 0 to 10.
Determine your goals (Specific, Meaningful, Adaptable, Realistic and Time-Bound) in the immediate, short, medium and long term that resonate with your values and assess your willingness to pursue them.
Acknowledge and label (notice and name, thank you mind etc) challenging thoughts and memories, observing their characteristics without getting entangled. Rate your level of attachment to these thoughts on a scale of 0 to 10.
Embrace difficult experiences with openness and compassion, allowing them to flow through you without resistance. Are you willing to create space for these experiences to unfold? Notice & Name: Open up, allow it to flow through you. Hold yourself kindly. Are you willing to make room for this?
Recognize the part of yourself that observes your thoughts, images, memories, emotions, and sensations without being defined by them. Use this perspective to gain clarity and insight into your experiences.
Build a Life Worth Living
Being present in the moment and aware of your thoughts, feelings, and surroundings without judgment.
Developing skills to tolerate and survive crises without resorting to harmful behaviors. This includes learning techniques for self-soothing and distraction.
Understanding and managing intense emotions effectively. This involves identifying and labeling emotions, reducing vulnerability to negative emotions, and increasing positive emotional experiences.
Enhancing skills to interact assertively, maintaining self-respect, and strengthening relationships. This includes learning to ask for what you need, saying no, and coping with interpersonal conflict.